Sunday, June 17, 2018

A Father's Day Reflection . . . "They should have come legally"


I find Father’s Day to be a day I think about my kids, my dreams and aspirations for them, and I reflect on how they are doing in life. As with any good father, I desire for my children to experience a life of fullness, a life of Shalom, a life where nothing is missing and nothing is broken. I examine my life and reflect on my successes and failures in providing an environment where they could flourish. I reflect on what I used to call blessing for the opportunities I was able to provide my children . . . what I now call privilege. And I think about all the fathers out there who do not have my same privileges, who are desperate to escape their oppression and provide for their children the opportunities that came so easy for me to provide.

Today I was reading some comments on Facebook about our government's current actions of taking children away from immigrant families who arrive at our border, families seeking asylum (or maybe just arriving at our border seeking a better life). I kept seeing the same familiar refrain, "They should have come legally."

This is my reflection on . . . “They should have come legally!!!


Ah . . . You must mean come legally like our white ancestors did and take the land away from the inhabitants by force.

You must mean come legally and take control of the land by either killing off the inhabitants or moving them to the most undesirable parts of the country - maybe call them reservations.

Oh, you mean come legally and Infect the inhabitants with your diseases. That will get rid of a large number of them and make it easier to take their land.

. . . and while you're busy inhabiting the land legally, why not take their children away from them and forcibly remove the inhabitants culture from their children by indoctrinating them with your religion and practices.  (Learn more)

Wait . . . take people's children away from them???

It seems it doesn't matter whether we - the white people - are taking a land, that doesn't belong to us, away from POC (Native Americans) OR, we - the white people - are doing everything we can to keep POC (in this case Latinos), who simply want a better life for their children the way our ancestors did, out of this land (that our ancestors stole). Regardless of the reason, it is OK for white people to separate families. It is OK to remove children from their parents or parents from their children (we'll save the impact of our mass incarceration policies for another writing). 

It simply does not matter the circumstances . . . WE WHITE FOLKS JUST LOVE TO TAKE CHILDREN AWAY FROM THEIR PARENTS, ESPECIALLY WHEN THE PARENTS ARE PEOPLE OF COLOR and we either want what they have or we are protecting what we got. 

And then, we have the unmitigated gall to use passages from the Bible to justify these actions!

Maybe it is time for us to remember what Jesus had to say about messing with the faith and innocence of a child: "Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe to stumble, it would be better for him if, with a heavy millstone hung around his neck, he had been cast into the sea." that is of course unless the children are Native American, or Latino immigrants seeking asylum, or Muslim refugees, or . . .

Scattered across these United States of America tonight, there are 100's and 1000's of father's with an ache in their soul because their children have been taken from them simply because they wanted a better life for their children.

In various locations in these United States of America, there are children living in cages, taken from their fathers, simply because their fathers wanted a better life for their children.

These fathers are NO DIFFERENT THAN OUR WHITE FATHERS, and GRANDFATHERS, and GREAT GRANDFATHERS, and (let the ancestral tree continue). These children are NO DIFFERENT THAN OUR CHILDREN WERE OR ARE TODAY.


Heavenly Father, Forgive Us . . . 
May Your Kingdom come on earth, as it is in Heaven


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